Happy New Year? | itisreal's Blog

Why we all pressume that because its the start of a new year, suddenly all the drama from the following one will disappear, i don't know, because it WONT.

It's officailly 3 days into 2013 and I can say they are still just as bad as last year. So far I've had arguments, panic attacks, suicide attempts and abuse from strangers - Happy New Year. But as bad as it all is, I think we all wsh things could be better, and since we all see a new year as a fresh start, we hope everything else will be fresh to, but life will give you what it will.

You may want the new year to be better - but your still a raging addict with a serious problem.
You want to wipe the slate clean - but your still dealing with the fact your husband is asking for a divorce.
You say it's time to change - but your still depressed everyday with your life.

Those are examples of problems that won't go away just because the clock strikes midnight. Yes, there are things we can do to change ourselves - lose weight, stop drinking, smoking etc., but we can't change the behaviour of others around us, we can't stop life throwing those horrible moments at us!

So, here is my advice:

TAKE EACH DAY ONE AT A TIME, CHANGE YOURSELF FOR THE BETTER AND DON'T LET DRAMA GET THE BETTER OF YOU.

Because that's all you can do. We only hold so much power. So. Carry on 2013, lets see what you've got for me...